Check out Crinkle Cat’s blog, which includes thoughts and observations associated with the AB/DL and babyfur community.
Source: Vie Studio (Pexels) Author’s Note: I’ve decided to refer to our community as ABDL, and remove the slash (“AB/DL”), to avoid discussing our community in a clinical way. When I was younger and still… Read More »Why Boundaries Matter in the ABDL Community
Background Photo by UMUT (Pexels). Logo by Crinkle Cat. This month, I officially launched Crinkle Cat Events. For nearly two decades I have organized and hosted AB/DL events across California. I’ve watched people light up… Read More »Building Safe Spaces Our Community Deserves
Source: Tails and Tornadoes 2026 Website. Artist unknown. I’m writing this from Tulsa International Airport, looking out over the hazy skyline of a city that feels packed with Midwest hospitality and quiet authenticity. It’s about… Read More »Tails & Tornadoes 2026 Recap
Source: Nataliya Vaitkevich (Pexels) I grew up in Los Angeles County, which means I grew up around famous people without really knowing it. When I was a kid, I’d bump into celebrities all the time.… Read More »You Can Be Successful and Still Be an AB/DL
Source: Tumblr (account deactivated) There’s a lot of talk online among AB/DLs and babyfurs about this one big question: Can you take the AB/DL kink and make it part of your everyday life? How safe… Read More »Can AB/DL Be More Than a Kink?
Source: Şahin Doğdu (Pexels) I want to talk about something a lot of us feel but don’t always say out loud: loneliness. Being AB/DL can feel really good when you’re alone. You can put on… Read More »You’re Not Alone: Finding Real Connection as an AB/DL
I still remember the first time I walked into BabyFurCon and felt that rare kind of freedom. For a few days, adults who wear diapers and enjoy being babyfurs could simply be themselves without the… Read More »Why BabyFurCon’s Growth Is Leaving People Behind
The Surprising Connection for Focus and Calm I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on the quiet ways we neurodivergent folks find comfort and stability in a world that often feels like it’s spinning just a… Read More »How Diapers Help Me Manage ADHD
Making the Case for Traditional Adult Diapers For years, the incontinence aisle has been shaped by one powerful idea: consumers do not want to feel like they are wearing diapers. That assumption has influenced almost… Read More »Why “More Like Underwear” Isn’t Always Better
Joining NorthShore Care Supply as an AB/DL Storyteller As many of you know, I’ve poured my heart into writing AB/DL stories and creating content for our community for years. One of my biggest goals has… Read More »Joining NorthShore A Dream Come True